The Good I Am Waiting For is Already Moving Through Me

The good we are waiting for moves through us.

The good I am waiting for is already moving through me.

Most of us are living inside a very familiar story.

It’s the story that says:
The world is broken.
People are selfish. Systems are failing. Everything feels fragile, polarized, and on edge.

And to be clear – this story didn’t come from nowhere.
There is real harm. Real injustice. Real grief.
I don’t want to minimize any of that.

But I want to suggest something quietly important.

That story, while not wrong… is incomplete.

Because when “the world is broken” becomes the only story we take in, something starts to happen inside us.

We get overwhelmed.
We get numb.
We begin to feel small and ineffective.

And without realizing it, we start outsourcing goodness.

We wait for leaders to fix things.
For heroes to save us.
For institutions to become humane.

And in the meantime, we underestimate the power of what’s already happening—
right where we are,
through ordinary people,
in moments so small they don’t register as “important.”

Most of what is right in the world never trends.
It doesn’t go viral.
It doesn’t come with a headline or a breaking-news alert.

It looks like someone slowing down.
Someone telling the truth.
Someone choosing kindness when it would be easier not to.

What if what’s right in the world isn’t just something we find out there …
but something we practice with each other?

And what if the cost of only consuming bad news
is that we forget who we are
and what we’re already capable of?

We are not denying what’s broken.
But, we are remembering something just as real:

That connection, beauty, freedom, creativity, and contribution
are not abstract ideals.

They are lived.
They are enacted.

And they move through people like you and me, every day.

So for our time together today, we’re going to do something simple and radical.

We’re going to notice.
We’re going to name.
And we’re going to celebrate what’s already alive and working: in your life and in mine.
in your own lives.

Because my quiet, hopeful thesis is this:

We are not separate from what’s right in the world.
We are how the goodness shows up.


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Dr. Yvette Erasmus is a clinical psychologist, author, and host of the podcast Conversations from the Heart. Through her integrated approach to personal transformation, she has built a global community, teaching people how to live into their values with courage and authenticity.

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