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Healthy communication and relationship skills for living from your most authentic, empowered and connected self.

Everything changes, when you do.
Healthy communciation and relationship skills for living from your most authentic, confident and connected self.
Connect more. Fight less.
Want to have healthy relationships rooted in choice, compassion and connection, instead of being stifled by fear, judgement and control?
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Weekly Inspiration & Encouragement
Below you’ll find a few of my most recent blog posts. Check out the full, searchable blog for more scripts, insights and personsl stories about my own journey into deeper compassion and healthier relationships.

Self-Trust: Grounded in Goodness
Whenever we feel insecure, hesitant, or afraid, one of the first places our minds go is to questions like: What really happened? What am I missing? Is this crazy? Or real? We start trying to figure out, "What's true?" Last week, I wrote about three kinds of self-trust...

Do You Trust Yourself?
Three types of self-trust that lead to relational safety.

How Do Systems Change?
For many years, I’ve been doing human relationship work in a wide variety of organizations and systems, and no matter where I go, everyone wants to know: What does it actually take to make deep, systemic and cultural changes in the way we do things? Although the...
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Vision
A global community filled with conscious, co-creative, and compassionate humans who are fueled by the loving power of connection, dedicated to our individual and collective healing, growth, and development, and committed to the alleviation of suffering in our world.
Mission
Helping you understand human dynamics so that you can heal, grow and evolve into your fullest potential.
Open-hearted. Connected. Interdepenent. Discerning. Wise mind. Core Principles.
Values
Relational. Reciprocal. Consentual. Compassion-based. Feminist. Inclusive. Anti-oppression. Anti-colonial. Trauma-informed. Nonviolence. Freedom. Love. Sustainable, interdependent systemic change, beginning from the inside out.
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