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Stories and learnings from my own personal journey into deeper compassion, healthier relationships and nonviolent living. Please feel free to leave comments and questions on any posts; I love being in conversation with you.

Category: Inner Work & Discernment

Inner Work & Discernment
All About Needs

Last week, I received this lovely question: "I love how much more literate in feelings I am now, however honestly, I just don't really ...

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Inner Work & Discernment
How To Know If You’re Ready For Love

I remember telling my therapist (long, long ago) that the one thing I wanted to work on in therapy was why I was drawn ...

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acceptance
Why Being “Positive” Might Be Bad For You

Have you noticed the cultural pressure to “Be Positive” or “Be Strong” or “Focus on the Good”?

It's as if we think that acknowledging or empathizing with painful ...

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acceptance
Including More Parts (Getting Bigger)

We lived in Germany when I was in elementary school and each year for the holidays we would visit extended family “back home” ...

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attachments
What Do You Need To Shed, To Grow?

The other night at dinner, Jessie reminded me of the time that she came home with a container of Hermit Crabs that she and her ...

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awareness
Transformational Choices

In one of my all-time favorites movies, The Matrix, (This clip) Morpheus offers Neo a choice that would transform his life: 

"You take the blue pill—the ...

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attention
Being Brave on Our Personal Journeys
When I get triggered by something, I often find myself reacting defensively by blaming, judging and avoiding the person or conversation. I get all reactive and evasive. ...
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acceptance
Making Peace with Fear
Gandhi once said, “The enemy is fear. We think it is hate; but, it is fear.”  Last week, people from both our Wednesday and Saturday practice ...
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consciousness
Triggered but Conscious
Showing up like a grown-up is so challenging when we are triggered. I was recently reminded of this when something unexpected happened in an important ...
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Inner Work & Discernment
Laziness, Resting and the Importance of Unplugging
The irony of my title, as I write this entry while on vacation, does not escape me. Away from work, I’m enjoying mountains, lakes, canoes ...
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Inner Work & Discernment
All About Needs

Last week, I received this lovely question: "I love how much more literate in feelings I am now, however honestly, I just don't really ...

Read more
Inner Work & Discernment
How To Know If You’re Ready For Love

I remember telling my therapist (long, long ago) that the one thing I wanted to work on in therapy was why I was drawn ...

Read more
acceptance
Why Being “Positive” Might Be Bad For You

Have you noticed the cultural pressure to “Be Positive” or “Be Strong” or “Focus on the Good”?

It's as if we think that acknowledging or empathizing with painful ...

Read more
acceptance
Including More Parts (Getting Bigger)

We lived in Germany when I was in elementary school and each year for the holidays we would visit extended family “back home” ...

Read more
attachments
What Do You Need To Shed, To Grow?

The other night at dinner, Jessie reminded me of the time that she came home with a container of Hermit Crabs that she and her ...

Read more
awareness
Transformational Choices

In one of my all-time favorites movies, The Matrix, (This clip) Morpheus offers Neo a choice that would transform his life: 

"You take the blue pill—the ...

Read more
attention
Being Brave on Our Personal Journeys
When I get triggered by something, I often find myself reacting defensively by blaming, judging and avoiding the person or conversation. I get all reactive and evasive. ...
Read more
acceptance
Making Peace with Fear
Gandhi once said, “The enemy is fear. We think it is hate; but, it is fear.”  Last week, people from both our Wednesday and Saturday practice ...
Read more
consciousness
Triggered but Conscious
Showing up like a grown-up is so challenging when we are triggered. I was recently reminded of this when something unexpected happened in an important ...
Read more
Inner Work & Discernment
Laziness, Resting and the Importance of Unplugging
The irony of my title, as I write this entry while on vacation, does not escape me. Away from work, I’m enjoying mountains, lakes, canoes ...
Read more

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