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Stories and learnings from my own personal journey into deeper compassion, healthier relationships and nonviolent living. Please feel free to leave comments and questions on any posts; I love being in conversation with you.

Category: Feelings

death
What Does It Mean to Grieve Well?

What does it mean to grieve well? How can we stay in relationship with these inevitable and natural experiences of loss, in the most ...

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emotional intelligence
What Does It Mean to Be “Emotionally Literate”?

Developing our emotional literacy is a significant aspect of becoming more resourced to have difficult conversations, but what does it actually mean to have ...

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emotional alchemy
From Wallowing and Venting to (Self) Empathy

We can relate to wallowing and venting with compassion, consciousness, and clear intentions, recognizing them as temporary aspects of a developmental journey, or we ...

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Emotional Alchemy
emotional alchemy
Learning the Art of Emotional Alchemy

Here are six things you can do to metabolize, process, and transform your emotions into energy, vitality, and empowerment.

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anger
Your Anger is Welcome Here

Unbridled self-expression with no care for the impact, is abuse. Endless care for the other, with no authentic self-expression is codependent and enabling. ...

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emotional alchemy
The Art of Suffering

Our rage, our sadnesses, our crises each bear the seeds of our personal transformation.

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childhood
Share the Emotional Load

Our strength and resilience is amplified by the quality of our relationships.

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awareness
How to Process Your Emotions

Processing, digesting and metabolizing our emotions is not the same thing as just talking about them, and often just talking about them can ...

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emotional alchemy
Feeling it, Fixes it

Although we often want to move away from unpleasant feelings to avoid them, remember that often simply feeling it, fixes it.

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avoidance
Emotional Strength Training

What do you do when your feelings get hurt? Well, let me tell you what didn't work for me recently, and what did.  ...

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death
What Does It Mean to Grieve Well?

What does it mean to grieve well? How can we stay in relationship with these inevitable and natural experiences of loss, in the most ...

Read more
emotional intelligence
What Does It Mean to Be “Emotionally Literate”?

Developing our emotional literacy is a significant aspect of becoming more resourced to have difficult conversations, but what does it actually mean to have ...

Read more
emotional alchemy
From Wallowing and Venting to (Self) Empathy

We can relate to wallowing and venting with compassion, consciousness, and clear intentions, recognizing them as temporary aspects of a developmental journey, or we ...

Read more
Emotional Alchemy
emotional alchemy
Learning the Art of Emotional Alchemy

Here are six things you can do to metabolize, process, and transform your emotions into energy, vitality, and empowerment.

Read more
anger
Your Anger is Welcome Here

Unbridled self-expression with no care for the impact, is abuse. Endless care for the other, with no authentic self-expression is codependent and enabling. ...

Read more
emotional alchemy
The Art of Suffering

Our rage, our sadnesses, our crises each bear the seeds of our personal transformation.

Read more
childhood
Share the Emotional Load

Our strength and resilience is amplified by the quality of our relationships.

Read more
awareness
How to Process Your Emotions

Processing, digesting and metabolizing our emotions is not the same thing as just talking about them, and often just talking about them can ...

Read more
emotional alchemy
Feeling it, Fixes it

Although we often want to move away from unpleasant feelings to avoid them, remember that often simply feeling it, fixes it.

Read more
avoidance
Emotional Strength Training

What do you do when your feelings get hurt? Well, let me tell you what didn't work for me recently, and what did.  ...

Read more

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