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Stories and learnings from my own personal journey into deeper compassion, healthier relationships and nonviolent living. Please feel free to leave comments and questions on any posts; I love being in conversation with you.

Category: Boundaries & Power

Boundaries & Power
How to Embody Nonviolent Power
What does effective, nonviolent power look like? Do you ever find yourself wishing that you had a roadmap to help you navigate the complex issues ...
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Boundaries & Power
Who Will You Be in Divisive Times?

The psychological and physical violence that wants to erupt is calling for an equal and opposite healing presence from those of us who feel ...

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boundaries
Loving Boundaries, Deeper Connections

I used to think that having a boundary meant proclaiming ultimatums, drawing lines in the stand and then defending them resolutely. I used to ...

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Boundaries & Power
Bowing Out Gracefully: When “No” Is a Gift

Here I share some general principles and some useful word-for-word scripts that you can use the next time you’d like to nonviolently disengage from ...

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Boundaries & Power
Power-Over vs. Power-With

Here I’m outlining key differences between power-over versus power-with consciousness, and we’re exploring the nonviolent, compassionate use of personal power and the impact that ...

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awareness
How to Shift from Reactive to Responsive: Freedom to Choose

I’ve been finding it easy to slide into unconscious, mindless, and reactive response patterns lately. Whenever I find myself in places like this, I ...

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boundaries
What Gets in the Way of Setting a Boundary? (Part 2)

It’s far more loving to respect people enough to know that they can manage their own feelings than to harm someone by avoiding a ...

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boundaries
What Gets in the Way of Setting a Boundary? (Part One)

How many times have you been willing to sit with increasing internal conflicts, resentments and distress, rather than risk losing a relationship that you ...

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boundaries
Why Is Setting Boundaries So Difficult?

What would it look like to be authentically yourself, express your limits and boundaries clearly, and still be in meaningful relationships with others?

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acceptance
How to Set a Protective Boundary

The difference between the punitive and protective use of force.

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Boundaries & Power
How to Embody Nonviolent Power
What does effective, nonviolent power look like? Do you ever find yourself wishing that you had a roadmap to help you navigate the complex issues ...
Read more
Boundaries & Power
Who Will You Be in Divisive Times?

The psychological and physical violence that wants to erupt is calling for an equal and opposite healing presence from those of us who feel ...

Read more
boundaries
Loving Boundaries, Deeper Connections

I used to think that having a boundary meant proclaiming ultimatums, drawing lines in the stand and then defending them resolutely. I used to ...

Read more
Boundaries & Power
Bowing Out Gracefully: When “No” Is a Gift

Here I share some general principles and some useful word-for-word scripts that you can use the next time you’d like to nonviolently disengage from ...

Read more
Boundaries & Power
Power-Over vs. Power-With

Here I’m outlining key differences between power-over versus power-with consciousness, and we’re exploring the nonviolent, compassionate use of personal power and the impact that ...

Read more
awareness
How to Shift from Reactive to Responsive: Freedom to Choose

I’ve been finding it easy to slide into unconscious, mindless, and reactive response patterns lately. Whenever I find myself in places like this, I ...

Read more
boundaries
What Gets in the Way of Setting a Boundary? (Part 2)

It’s far more loving to respect people enough to know that they can manage their own feelings than to harm someone by avoiding a ...

Read more
boundaries
What Gets in the Way of Setting a Boundary? (Part One)

How many times have you been willing to sit with increasing internal conflicts, resentments and distress, rather than risk losing a relationship that you ...

Read more
boundaries
Why Is Setting Boundaries So Difficult?

What would it look like to be authentically yourself, express your limits and boundaries clearly, and still be in meaningful relationships with others?

Read more
acceptance
How to Set a Protective Boundary

The difference between the punitive and protective use of force.

Read more

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