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3 Steps for Repair Work

When I’m tired or low on interpersonal resources, I find it difficult to show up with compassion and grace.I sink back into judgmental, controlling, and reactive habits even though I know they are self-sabotaging and unlikely to result in what I actually want.I’ve...

Icy Conditions and Repair Work

Driving home from a beautiful Christmas concert in the snow storm last weekend, we passed multiple spin-outs on the roads. Given the icy conditions, I slowed way, way down on the freeway. My teenage daughter turned to me, “I think you need to go faster –...