Do Words Matter?

As you work on changing your language and approach in conversations with others, do you ever find yourself wondering … • “What is the right way to say …” or • “Is it OK to use xyz word?” or • “Can I use “heard” as...

Intention and Impact: Both Matter

Last weekend, one of my worst fears came true. Trying to provide “helpful” coaching during a fish-bowl exercise, I stopped someone trying out a new skill during the demonstration by saying, “Wait, wait, wait…” (as I interrupted her) and then added, “you’re using...

Recovering from Reactivity

As I was walking across a parking lot, carrying a package to a UPS store, a man passed me walking towards his car. Moments later, he yelled back at me, with some hostility, “Hey lady, do you think you could park any closer to my car?” I...