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Is it Empathy or Enabling?

by | Jul 15, 2019 | Healthy Relationships

When I realized I had been enabling some destructive behaviors in someone I love, I did some deep soul-searching to figure out what was going on for me. Instead of being clear about how I wanted to be treated, and respecting my own internal “no,” I...

Intention and Impact: Both Matter

by | Oct 30, 2018 | Nonviolent Communication

Last weekend, one of my worst fears came true. Trying to provide “helpful” coaching during a fish-bowl exercise, I stopped someone trying out a new skill during the demonstration by saying, “Wait, wait, wait…” (as I interrupted her) and then added, “you’re using...