The Power of Intrinsic Motivation
Have you ever looked at a big goal, a big dream, something you want to heal or learn, and found yourself bailing before you even start? For example, I started writing these weekly Tuesday reflections about 4 years ago. I was going through “stuff” and needed a way to...What Does it Mean to “Do Your Work”?
In many personal development and self-help communities, I often hear people telling one another to “do your work” or they’ll say, “That’s my/your work to do….” But have you ever stopped to wonder: What does it actually mean to...You Have No Choice About What You Want
You have no choice about what you want.When someone first suggested this to me, I balked and scrunched up my face in disapproval and disgust, with my knee-jerk response: Of course I have a choice in what I want. What a ridiculous idea. Then I sat with it. And...How to Have Power Without Being Forceful
Do you remember Aesop’s fable about the power struggle between the sun and the wind? In case you don’t, it goes something like this: One day, as the sun and the wind were arguing about who was stronger, they noticed a man in a coat hurrying down the road....
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