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The 2 Main Differences Between Boundaries and Requests

The 2 Main Differences Between Boundaries and Requests

There are two main misconceptions about boundaries. The first is that a boundary is a punishment.  Now that you’ve gone and done this terrible, awful thing to me, my only option is to punish you for your actions by enforcing a boundary. The second is that a boundary is something I force you to do.  “You will not speak to me in that tone of voice”, or “You will not continue to disrespect the family in this way.”

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What is Love?

What is Love?

We've been waiting all winter for today, and it's finally here!Spring has arrived, and as we're aware that many of you are traveling for spring break, we've got a shortened blog today.  Please enjoy this YouTube video on the nature of love.   Is Love a Feeling? A...

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Reclaiming Choice

Reclaiming Choice

Our world would be radically transformed if all humans made one simple, profound shift in how they approached any situation. What one shift?  A commitment to meeting collective human needs to whatever degree is possible.    That’s it. I truly believe it would change...

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What Do You Need These Days?

What Do You Need These Days?

As my best friend and I were recently bemoaning the state of the world and checking in around our personal growth over the last few years, she casually mused,  “Isn’t it lovely how we hold the needs of others inside of ourselves -  until they strangle and kill us,...

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