I used to think that having a boundary meant proclaiming ultimatums, drawing lines in the sand and then defending them resolutely. I used to associate having good boundaries with being disconnected and cut off from others. Because of my deeply ingrained fear of not...
I often think of conversations as the life-force that enlivens – or throttles – relationships. Conversations are never really complete. They are ongoing. Winding. Emergent. Unpredictable. And, when they are life-affirming and generative, conversations tend to go...
Today, I have two questions for you: What conversations do you wish you were having, but aren’t? What gets in the way of you initiating the conversations you want to have? Here’s what I often hear from people when I ask the second question: I don’t know how to start...
As I sit at home today wondering what to write about this week, I notice my mind is all over the place, hopping around from thought to thought. Unsettled. I spent this weekend immersing myself in the latest research on narcissism, psychopathy, grandiosity, magical...
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